Dealing with Divorce | Mom Minute

May 24, 2014

Todays #MomMinute topic is about dealing with divorce. While it hasn’t shown up often in my life, we do have a few cases of close family members or friends who have gone through a divorce.

Dealing with Divorce

Today’s question comes from Olivia who asks, “My parents just got divorced, and do not get along. I feel like they are making me pick sides. I do not want to lose either of them. What do I do?

Dealing with Divorce

I believe that in some cases divorce may be merited {such a physical, mental, and sexual abuse}, and in others it may not be {infidelity, mid-life crisis, pure selfishness, etc}. Every situation is different, and we really shouldn’t judge because not only is it wrong to do, but we may only know a sliver of what has really happened.

What I do know, is that in many cases the children are indirect victims who often impose the blame on themselves. This is where the heartache comes in for me. Worse yet, are situations where the parents politic the children to choose sides, which is such an unfair situation to place them in.

My counsel to anyone in this situation is to be honest with your parents about how you feel.

Many of you do not know this, but Shaun’s parents divorced just a few years ago. The kids were all grown, which certainly made it easier, but the process was still a little hard on them. Fortunately, the divorce is fairly amicable which took a lot of dedication from both parents. Shaun’s advice to both parents while they were going through the divorce process was, “It’s more important to do what’s right, than to be right.

{That’s actually advice we should all take and live by on a daily basis, eh?}

Along with being honest with your parents, etc, something I neglected to state in the video is to find someone else you can confide in. Whether it be a counselor, teacher, priest, extended family member, or a friend, find someone who can let you vent, cry, laugh, and love. Going through a divorce as a child is something very difficult to manage alone, and reaching out to a 3rd-party loved one may just give you the extra strength you need.

What I can say is that your parents love you dearly! They’re simply are at a point in their lives where they need to take a step back and identify who they are.

Keep your head up, try love them a little more, and honestly let them know that your relationship with them now no longer includes the other parent. If you tell them that lovingly, they should quickly understand and do their best to respect your wish.

What I hope you always remember though, is that you are NEVER alone! There are more people who love you than you likely recognize. I heard a quote once that testifies of that, saying “God works approximately 10,000 miracles in our daily lives… however we only recognize about three of them.

For any of our readers who have gone through divorce, what advice to you have for Olivia for how you were best able manage and overcome that process? Please free to leave your comments below…

Happy Parenting!

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Organizing Morning Chaos | Mom Minute

May 18, 2014

For the longest time, mornings have been the hardest part of our days. Not that the carpools after school are not daunting themselves, but that to get six children ready for the day in the shortest amount of time is very… grueling!

Our Morning Routine

Today’s topic comes from a question by viewer Vicki, who asks, “What’s your family’s morning routine? How do you get so many kids ready and out the door in the morning?”

Morning Routine

I actually get asked this question a lot. Once Brooklyn and Bailey began school, we started waking up at 6 am. Yes, sometimes even 5:30. You can tell if you watch our earliest videos.

We needed that extra time to get the girls dressed, hair styled, fed an appropriate breakfast, give them time to practice the piano, pack a healthy lunch, and hold family prayer and scripture study.

As our other kids reached school age, the routine was already set and the older girls began helping with the responsibilities. Attention to logistics and time was key. It’s almost like things were running in “stations” in order to get it all done.

Today, with five children in school and two bus pick up times, we really have to run the morning efficiently or someone is going to miss the bus!

Click below for see and hear more details on our morning routine…

For any of our readers, what ideas do you have for the rest of us moms on how to help make the morning routines run more smooth? Please free to leave your comments below…

Happy Parenting!

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Happy Mother’s Day | Mom Minute

May 11, 2014

Happy Mother’s Day to all you amazing moms out there!

I have been a mother for over 14 years now, and I have lots of Mother’s Day memories, among all the many other wonderful memories I have with my family. There is certainly more to life than hairstyles!

Mother's Day Memories

For those of you who celebrate Mother’s Day today, don’t forget to give her a big hug and tell her how much you love her and how much she has meant to you. For those of you who live a distance from your mother, please give her a quick phone call to tell her the same!

For those who are not yet mothers for health or other reasons, we also celebrate this day for all womanhood. It isn’t just about being a mother, because the impact we have as women on our significant others, friends, and children around us, is not only important… but great!

Lastly, for those of you whose mothers have passed on from this life, please take a moment to reflect on the marvelous impact she was in raising such a wonderful young lady, and thank her in your own way.

As a mother, there is nothing more important to me than my family.

Mother's Day Memories

For today’s #MomMinute video, viewer Chelsea asks the following question, “What is your most memorable Mother’s Day memory?

Simply click below to hear my thoughts…

For any of our readers, what are your favorite Mother’s Day memories, or what do you do for your mom to help make her feel special? Please free to leave your comments below…

Happy Parenting!

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Disappointing Your Parents | Mom Minute

May 04, 2014

One of the biggest questions I get asked is if my girls enjoy having their hair done.

In general, yes, they do. However, just like every other family, we have our moments. When it comes to filming hairstyles, we have never forced our girls to be a model, it has always come on a volunteer basis. This is why you will see CGH3 volunteering the most, and CGH4 the least.

Disappointing Your Parents

One of our viewers, Sasha, asks the following question, “I hate going to soccer and it doesn’t make me happy anymore, but I know my mom loves that I play. I want to quit, but don’t know how to tell her I don’t want her to be disappointed in me.

Disappointing Parents

As a parent, I want to support my kids in all of their child activities, but sometimes it’s difficult to notice when they’re bored with their current activities and are ready to try something new. I definitely fear that my kids will resent me for making them stay in an activity that they don’t enjoy. I also do not want them sitting idly by watching television or playing video games all day.

The key for us a parents and our children is always open and honest communication. In this episode of #MomMinute on The Mom’s View, I’ll teach you how to communicate so that everyone gets what they want!

For any of our readers, what suggestions do you have when kids are afraid of disappointing their parents? Please free to leave your comments below…

Happy Parenting!

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250th YouTube Video & Big News

April 27, 2014

Two BIG announcements today!  I love days like today, because we get to share some fun news with you, in a way that is for sure to make you smile!

CuteGirlsHairstyles Kids Names

First, we launched our hairstyle app today, which can be found on iTunes and Google Play!

CuteGirlsHairstyles App

There are 2 versions of the app, a free version and an in-app premium upgrade…

The Free Version of the CGH App includes:

  • Access to all the most-recent 10 hairstyle video tutorials!
  • Access to our Twitter feed!
  • Add supported.

The In-App Upgrade to the Premium Version CGH App includes:

  • Get EARLY ACCESS to our weekly videos… {See them 1-hour before they go live on YouTube!}
  • Access to all 250+ hairstyle video tutorials!
  • Access to our Twitter feed!
  • View all “hashtagged” Instagram recreations by you and fellow CGH Hair Ninjas {if over 50 likes}, and gain your own fan base!
  • Chance to become our Featured Member!

DISCOUNT: For these first 2 weeks {from now until May 11th, 2014} the Premium upgrade will be only $0.99. After that date, the price will go up to its standard rate.

Feel free to tag your own photos of our app {on your device} with: #CGHApp

Secondly, and we have been thinking about this for some time, we’ve decided to RELEASE the names of our children!

Since many fans had been finding them out, and sharing them online, we decided to release the kids’ names on our own terms.

A few months ago, I was in LA filming with @TheMomsView where we had invited my good friend Colette Butler {yes, ShayCarl’s wife} on the show. We were talking, and I asked Colette if she ever regretted revealing her kids’ names last year. She said that she and Shay did not, and that it really had been a very positive experience for them and their fans.

I am not naive enough to think fans couldn’t find out our children’s names, since we’ve done quite a few appearances where the media went ahead and shared them anyway.

From there, fans began sharing with more fans, and it is something that we literally hold back anymore. We were spending so much time deleting comments referring to names that it was hard to find time to practice and research hairstyles. So, we are jumping on board with this name release on our own terms!

Lastly, we received our YouTube Gold Button Plaque for reaching 1,000,000 subscribers, which is funny, because we just passed 2 million! We just want to thank each of you for being with us all these years! We really feel like you are all part of this ever-growing family of ours!

Items Needed: Pure happiness and a SMILE!

Time Requirement: Indefinitely

Skill Level: For all ages

Hope you enjoy the app, and more importantly, continue to enjoy our family!

Happy Hairstyling!

My twins’ video for this week was an Easter Basket Haul, showing BrooklynAndBailey channel fans what types of things they find in their Easter baskets. Click below to view…

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